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On this day – August 15 – 26 years ago, my life was irrevocably altered. Forever.
On that day I became a mother. My body was cut open, a completely independent, unique individual was delivered through that most welcome scar, and my husband said, “It’s a girl.”
And EVERYTHING changed.
I discovered that I possessed a larger capacity for love than I had ever imagined. I could stare at her sleeping face for hours and not get bored.
I discovered that I was willing to do anything to protect her. The first time another child pushed her down to take a toy away, I was willing, just for a second, to cause that child severe pain in defense of my duckling.
I discovered that I could hear the change in her breathing when sound asleep and once it woke me, I wouldn’t sleep for hours out of fear that something was wrong.
Her laughter could make my breath catch in my throat and her sticky-faced kisses were the best part of my day. And the first time she smiled at me?! Tears were shed.
She got older and the teen years proved to be a challenge. She was trying to find her own way, spread her wings a bit, explore a bigger portion of the world. And I was still trying to keep her safe. Maybe trying a little too hard.
Adulthood. This is where parenting gets hard. Elizabeth Stone said it best –
Making the decision to have a child – it is momentous. It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body.
Moving away from home, having her own daughter . . . that little bundle of joy-beyond-understanding has done both of those things. She’s well-respected at her work, has regular clients that prefer to work with her over others, knows what she believes and lives by it and has recently become a mother. Watching her love on that precious little girl who made me a grandma?! There are no words.
Most days I breathe a huge sigh of relief and say a quick prayer of thanksgiving that I didn’t screw up too terribly. And I will forever be humbly grateful that I was the one lucky enough to get to be “mom” to such a stellar human being.
I love this quote. Mostly because I’ve seen time and time again that it’s true.
I did something on a whim recently. There are a number of people using an app that allows people to anonymously tell you what they think of you. I haven’t been brave enough to try it myself. In the midst of all the friends that were posting their links for this app, I saw another post that intrigued me. It was a picture that simply said, “Comment your name & I’ll tell you one thing I like about you.” Now, I didn’t limit it to one thing in some cases. And I intentionally avoided things like “you’re pretty” or “you have a good fashion sense”. I tried to focus on character qualities I admired.
I posted it and the names slowly but surely started showing up. It was actually quite fun to respond to each person! Some of them I’ve known for years, some were family, some were students from my Michigan years, some were current FDSH students, . . . you get the idea.
What really struck me was some of the responses I got in return. Some told me that they needed the boost, others said they had been having a bad day and my comment made it better.
But let’s be clear – there is nothing unique about what I did. The compliments I gave were honest assessments of the best in those who I was speaking to. If others had given them, their power would not have been diminished a bit. Anyone can see the best in another and call it out.
I didn’t expect the impact it’s had on me. As I said before, some of those I was complimenting, I’ve known for years. Others? Not long at all. In some cases, just over a year. For those, it took a bit more careful thinking. All in all, I responded to 57 people. I had to spend time looking for the best in 57 individuals. Not a huge number, I’ll grant you, but it took time. And during that time, it kept my mind focused on finding the best in others.
So I cannot help but wonder – what would happen if we started giving just one sincere compliment to one person every day? What would it do for those around us? What would it do for our own attitudes and perspective? I would certainly love to find out!
One of the things I love about the Bible App I use on my phone and iPad is the Devotional feature. I can choose a devotional AND have the app remind me each day. And this latest devotional is hitting me HARD. I just have to share yesterday’s devotional reading and the scripture it referenced. What you are about to read is not my creation. It’s from “When Faith Catches Fire” by Samuel Rodriguez and Dr. Robert Crosby.
Rev. 5:9 – And they sang a new song, saying, “Worthy are you to take the book and to break its seals; for You were slain, and purchased for God with Your blood men from every tribe and tongue and people and nation.
There is a new song arising! Can you hear it? It is deep within and longing to rise from a sacred place of silent hope to be a sound that will pierce the darkness. There is a new song arising!
This new song will not be sung exclusively by a black chorus, a white ensemble, a Latino band, or an Asian soloist. No! This new song will be sung by a multiethnic, multi-generational, kingdom-culture choir washed in the blood of the Lamb. A church united.
But rest assured, this song rises not out of programmed promptings or emotional exuberance, but rather out of the depths, out of the leading of God’s spirit at work in the hearts of surrendered men and women. It is not born out of hype but rather of hope.
It is time to sing a new song! The new song reminds us of our identity. So who are we? We must respond with clarity, conviction, and courage and affirm the following:
- We are the light of the world (Matthew 5:14)
- We are a city on a hill (Matthew 5:14)
- We are a people of the Word (Matthew 4:4)
- We are the salt of the earth (Matthew 5:13)
- We are prophetic and not pathetic
- We are disciples, witnesses, and Christ followers (Matthew 28:16-20)
- We are children of the cross (Romans 8:17), fruit of the empty tomb (John 12:24), and products of the upper room (Acts 2)
- We are the redeemed of the Lord (Psalm 107:2)
- We are forgiven, free, and favored (Galatians 5:1)
- We are called and chosen (1 Peter 2:9)
- We are warriors and worshippers (Psalm 144:1)
We are not first and foremost brown, black, white, or yellow, Hispanic, Charismatic, Pentecostal, or reformed.
We are above all the born-again, blood-washed, Spirit-empowered children of the Living God.
Going a different route with today’s blog post. A new school year is getting ready to start which means I’m revisiting some favorite educational TED talks as a motivation for the new year. This is a long one but it’s worth the watch! So click the link, save it as a favorite or bookmark it so you don’t have to watch it all in one sitting!